About me

Introducing Stars
Deborah Spaltmann, born: 1958
Owner/Founder/Coach at Destiny Sculpting Coaching
Education: Marketing BBA, scl; Certified Personal & Business Coach (Dr. Migge Seminare), Certified MGSCC Executive and Team Coach
Professional Background: as Service Provider for Marketing Services, in Coaching as Coach, Trainer, Speaker, Team Leader; in Corporate Marketing in the areas of Business Development, Market Research, PR, Internal Communications, Speechwriter

Debby Spaltmann — A Quiet Force Who Helps Others Sculpt Their Destiny

Debby didn’t inherit certainty or security—she built it, step by step. Growing up with little, she carved out a life of stability, knowledge, and impact—not by chasing flashy success, but by doing the work. She moved countries, rose through leadership ranks, and made bold decisions that came with loneliness, setbacks, and painful lessons.

A major turning point came not in a boardroom, but in the quiet collapse of a trusted community. Betrayal and public humiliation stripped away a lifelong identity, forcing her into depression, reflection, and—ultimately—a new calling. She began the deep work of coaching, not to “fix” others, but because she had to rebuild herself.

Beneath her structured mind lies a heart that knows what it is to feel voiceless, dismissed, or invisible. Her personal history includes trauma that shaped her sense of self and worth for decades. And yet—through curiosity, courage, and deep self-inquiry—Debby reframed her story. She moved from pleasing and proving to living with presence and purpose.

Now, as a coach, mentor, and guide, she holds a unique space. High-achieving men often seek her out to speak their dreams out loud—because with her, they feel understood. Women are sometimes surprised by her depth and quiet power—but once they lean in, they often find the freedom to explore their own.

Debby helps people move from confusion to clarity—not by handing them answers, but by helping them ask better questions. She blends big-picture thinking with hands-on tools, creating frameworks and insight that feel both structured and soulful.

Her signature philosophy—“Grow boldly, act wisely, impact deeply”—isn’t just a tagline. It’s a lived truth.

Who am I?

We often struggle with sharing something that should be so straight-forward as telling another “who I am”. Why? Because we often describe ourselves in terms of what we do, rather than who we are. But I, just like you, am more than what I do or what I have done before.

Joy and Purpose in Work – Whether coaching individuals or teams, I aim to help people find joy and meaning in their work, underscoring the value of fulfillment.

My Values

Continuous Learning – I am committed to self-improvement and staying current in my fields of expertise.

Empathy and Support – Whether in coaching or in personal events, I demonstrate a desire to uplift and support others.

Creativity – From organizing skits for a birthday celebration to innovative marketing frameworks, I consistently display creativity in how I approach both work and personal projects.

Discipline and Structure – I focus on organized, step-by-step processes and patience, showing a value for discipline to achieve long-term results.

Communication Excellence – Given my background in strategic marketing and PR, effective and clear communication is central to both my professional and personal interactions.

Holistic Well-being – Incorporating exercise into my life, focusing on interpersonal communication in coaching, and practicing mindfulness in business contexts, is how I demonstrate my values for my own balanced personal and professional wellness. Regular exchanges with other coaches helps to keep me grounded and purposeful in my day-to-day work.

I am experienced

…which could mean I am not a spring chicken, but it could also mean that I may have come across what you’re facing right now, before you. And that means, I might be able to help you get over this challenge you are going through with a few less bruises.

I am professionally trained

… I use professional tools and recognized processes that are proven to have been successful in coaching, leadership training, communications strategy, and marketing. I regularly attend further education and training in coaching tools and psychotherapy, and I have taught – and still coach as well as teach – others in coaching, marketing and strategic business management.

I am educated

… in the process of leadership accountability, certified as a Marshall Goldsmith Stakeholder Centered Coach for executives and teams. I have 35+ years experience as a senior marketing and communications professional in the corporate, as well as the world of small business; and as of the past 10 years, in the world of entrepreneurship, too. A career that is backed up with a summa cum laude degree in Marketing (with a thesis on Strategy) and extensive education in psychotherapy.

I do what I do because I am who I am.

I am educated, experienced, professionally trained, and I love what I do.